hello, my fiancee and I are in our 30"s. She was diagnosed with HPV about a year ago before we met. Up until about 2 months ago we were sexual active without "protection" after this. Two months ago her doctor told her that some abnormal cells had reappeared, so she gave her some solution to fix, and told her not to have sex for atleast 6 months. My wife to be is phobic now, now sexual relations at all, and will not even allow me to touch her in that area. She had one of the precancerous types of HPV, but can we not lead a normal life. Im sure i have it now, so what is the problem. She believes that sex will somehow damage her cells inside worse. Can you give me some advise.