My dear friend, I have gone through your very detailed story and have noted the contents. 11 the day of menses cannot be labelled as a safe period since the ovulation takes place 14 days prior to the next expected menses. So if she is having 28 days cycle, the day of ovulation would be 14th day. Considering the 72 hours activity of sperms and 24 hours life of the ovum, 11th day can be marginal day of Fertility period. However, you did not have any sort of vaginal penetration nor did you ejaculate in her vagina. So there is no question of pregnancy occurring due to your just body play, you did not ejaculate at all. For pregnancy to occur, male sperm has to meet female egg. This has not happened. From your narration, it seems that she is having premenstrual symptoms. So just wait for her to get the menses. Even stress of pregnancy also may delay the menses. Forget about the possibility of pregnancy. If at all her periods are delayed for more than 8 days, then you may think of urine pregnancy test and/or ultrasonography, which I am sure will be negative. Then she may take Progesterone tablets for 4 days and discontinue. She will get menses within 4-8 days after withdrawal. However, I feel, she will not need any of these things and will get menses in a couple of days. Just relax. I am sure you are satisfied by this information.