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What Causes Lack Of Ejaculation During Intercourse?
Question: I can not ejacuate during intercourse with my wife as we are planning for a family. But I can easily ejacuate while watching porn. I have never masterbate with hand...However i can easily ejacuate while watching porn in sleeping position and rubbing my penis against couch or bed..
Please advise, how i can able to ejacuate during sex with my wife.
Age of the patient: 34 Years, Patient's gender: Male
Current medications:
No..only take cialis 20mg as required.
Past medications of the same issue:
No
Please advise, how i can able to ejacuate during sex with my wife.
Age of the patient: 34 Years, Patient's gender: Male
Current medications:
No..only take cialis 20mg as required.
Past medications of the same issue:
No
Brief Answer:
Please do the following
Detailed Answer:
Dear Sakti,
Thanks for using Healthcaremagic.
I read your query and understand your concerns. Inability to achieve orgasm can occur due to multiple factors ranging from psychological to organic. Since you have normal ejaculation during watching porn while not having ejaculation during sex couple with positive history of prone masturbation indicates that the pressure applied during masturbation is much higher and that same thing creating problems. Some of experts called it traumatic masturbation syndrome and there is immediate need to correct it.
I suggest you following things.
1. Firstly stop masturbation while in prone position by rubbing at bed or something.
2. When masturbating apply slightest of pressure. This is essential to get the sensitivity which your penis needs intensely.
3. Thirdly use a mild lubricant while having sex.
4 Devote enough time to foreplay. Delay your sexual activity as far as possible .
I hope this helps you.
If you have any further query, I would be glad to help you.
If not, you may close the discussion and if possible you may rate the answer for me, so that I get a good feedback.
In future if you wish to contact me directly, you can use the below mentioned link:
http://doctor.healthcaremagic.com/doctors/dr-ashok-kumar/67386
Thanks and regards
Please do the following
Detailed Answer:
Dear Sakti,
Thanks for using Healthcaremagic.
I read your query and understand your concerns. Inability to achieve orgasm can occur due to multiple factors ranging from psychological to organic. Since you have normal ejaculation during watching porn while not having ejaculation during sex couple with positive history of prone masturbation indicates that the pressure applied during masturbation is much higher and that same thing creating problems. Some of experts called it traumatic masturbation syndrome and there is immediate need to correct it.
I suggest you following things.
1. Firstly stop masturbation while in prone position by rubbing at bed or something.
2. When masturbating apply slightest of pressure. This is essential to get the sensitivity which your penis needs intensely.
3. Thirdly use a mild lubricant while having sex.
4 Devote enough time to foreplay. Delay your sexual activity as far as possible .
I hope this helps you.
If you have any further query, I would be glad to help you.
If not, you may close the discussion and if possible you may rate the answer for me, so that I get a good feedback.
In future if you wish to contact me directly, you can use the below mentioned link:
http://doctor.healthcaremagic.com/doctors/dr-ashok-kumar/67386
Thanks and regards
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