HealthCareMagic is now Ask A Doctor - 24x7 | https://www.askadoctor24x7.com

Suggest Treatment For Sadomasochism

Posted on Sat, 10 May 2014

Question: HI Doctor, From my childhood I have feeling of getting mood and my penis get erect if I think like some gal dominate me and treat me like a slave…..No one taught me to do this…It came automatically in my mind… I don’t know why how?...this Is how….i will imagine one of my friend which like most…she ask me to press legs..she say cant u press properly…go put coffee for me and come…I like gals feet much This gone gone…after marriage I wanted my wife to do like that…but no luck…while having sex also I have to think like a slave to get erect…day by day,,,,my erection down…and I cudnt insert now…it going down whil insert… Also I do rub my penis always while chatting with gals like this in site… How do I cure this?? How can I have good sex?? Can I take Viagra?? my friend is calling me to come..she said she will treat me like a slave for 2 days..shall i go? Pls help me

Answered by Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (44 minutes later)

Brief Answer: get SSRI with Psychostimulants ,after consultation Detailed Answer: Hello Thanks for choosing wwwhealthcaremagic.com This condition is called SadoMesochism where one gets aroused by turturing others or selfin reality or imagination. This is genetics so no fault of yours. You have to accept that you are like this. As far as maintaining good post marital relationship is concerned, there is pharmacotherapy in the form of SSRI like Sertraline or Paroxetine in relatively higher doses and Psychostimulants like Methyl Phenidate. These help to keep these thoughts away to a large extent. Other options can be intra penile injections and testosterone supplement if this is low. in extreme case, intra penile implant is good choice. Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Yogesh D

Follow up: Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (21 minutes later)

Should i try to cure this...or let it go?? and ask my wife to do like this?? You said some stuffs?? is all those medicines? If i take this i wont get this thinking?? oh what is intra penile injections intra penile implant is good choice. am i abnormal?? Also can i medicines to erection??? will it be erect for a long time?? even after leaking?

Answered by Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (6 hours later)

Brief Answer: If you have problem in sex with wife, cure it Detailed Answer: Hello No, you are not abnormal but different. The condition is calle Paraphilia. If you have problem in sex with a female, you may think of treatment but if not,forget it. you can ask your wife to do it but she may or may not like it. All those are medicines for Paraphilia. intrapenile injection is a mode of treatment for erection problem. Viagra may help but most of the times is not successful. If you leak after getting a full erection. it is normal. if these feelings are very very strong , your marriage in jeopardy and no other method works, we put an implant in penis, just like a lens in eye. You can erect it on demand and soften as per wish. Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Prasad

Follow up: Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (14 hours later)

1). but if she treats me like a slave..i get good erection its very strong also... so i have no problem in erection correct?... 2). also i dont know why i dont like to lip kiss..am not getting mood at all...why? 3). licking her ass. is good for health..i dont like licking there..becas it will go into my mouth..i feel bad at mouth.. 4) licking boobs is good or bad?? will it affect health?

Answered by Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (1 hour later)

Brief Answer: Please receive and give pleasure during sex Detailed Answer: Hello It doesn't matter if you don't like lip kiss. It varies from person to person . There will be certain areas and acts which are very arousing to some one, may not be so to another or even the partner. so tell your partner what you like. Also try to find what she likes. The policy of giving and receiving pleasure should be at the backdrop of sexual act. Licking the ass is OK if hygiene is maintained . You can lick or play with any part of your partner, provided it is not distressing to either of you. Licking and playing with boobs is a very common act and no problem with health. Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Yogesh D

Follow up: Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (59 minutes later)

Sure thanks for your answers only one u didnt answer 1). but if she treats me like a slave..i get good erection its very strong also... so i have no problem in erection correct?..

Answered by Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (6 hours later)

Brief Answer: You have no problem in etection Detailed Answer: Hello It is correct that you have no problem in erection. Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar

Follow up: Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (15 hours later)

mine is very sensitive and it tends to leak very fast. is there any medicine i can take to hold my sperm till i insert?

Answered by Dr. Dr.Saatiish Jhuntrraa (9 hours later)

Brief Answer: try SSRI like Paroxetine/ Dapoxetine Detailed Answer: Hello Yes, there are SSRI like Paroxetine or Dapoxetine to delay ejaculation. Intrapenile injections, under guidance from a urologist can be a good choice. Dr Saatiish Jhuntrraa

Note: For further guidance on mental health, Click here.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Shanthi.E