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Suggest Treatment For Excessive Anger And Stress

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Posted on Fri, 10 Apr 2015
Question: Dr. My age is 31 year old, non smoker, non drinker(Rearly/ocasinally), Married having one baby boy, Working in Engineering and tech. support team in a MNC. Sir i feel very angry on my child (2.5 year old) and express in a very disaster manner. However face same situtaion with my wife. I feel anger when they do some thing wrong or ill-logical, after my warning or instruction. i always feel i am very wrong and not to do this again but i can't. now a days i feel very angry on them very frequently.this is very dangerious for my personal life as well as my health this statment repeat every time by myselg and sticket my self not anger again,but i failed every time. I also think that there is very bad and negative effect on my little baby but i cant stop my self. some time i can't able to sleep properly (notice very few times).rather then i have very much tension regarding my future and my faimily future.i face many chalenges in my life with my parents, they always behave difrentiate and never support me and always do opposite what i want. like (1.) i want make my carrier in Engineering but they totally force me towards Medical field (hence totally deviate) i make my carrier in engineering very difficulty (first done diploma in engineerng,then distance engineering graduation then distance MBA.) however i was very good in study but this type of study journey pulles me very back. (2) i want my life patner educated and having job, but they force me to marrige with a 12 pass girl, however i tried for her higher education but my parents totally disagree with that point and she cant go for higher education. (3) I support my parents , younger brother & sister always byt i never get a single support with them and they seprated me from joint faimily. When i fell all these things i feel very frusted. Now a days i also feel that my memory power got distrubed (feel some time) i cant reply smartly (verbely) and quick as per situation as i face. Then afetr i thought very deep and get tence. This all things make me very Angry behaviour person. I cant understand what i do. Please sugget me. Specially i will not angry with my Baby and my Wife. If any more details or information required, please inform. Thanks in advance.
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Answered by Dr. Dr. Ashok Kumar Choudhary (1 hour later)
Brief Answer:
There is urgent need for stress management

Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for using Healthcaremagic.

I read your query and understand your concerns.
First of all I feel that you need to visit a psychiatrist in person rather than posting a query as here are multiple issues witch needs intervention.

Secondly there is need to manage the stress. I am going to write few suggestions below and hope that with proper use of these simple measures you will be able to control your anger to the significant level.

1. Diet: Ensure intake of adequate quantity of fiber. 2 servings of vegetable salad and 2 servings of fruits ( One preferable citrus fruit).
Avoid junk food and fast food especially pizza, burgers and excessive sweets

2. Ensure adequate water intake: Follow rule of 1 which i usually advise. 1 glass of water 1 hour before and 1 glass of water 1 hour after every meals will ensure adequate consumption of water . Recommended intake of water is 2 to 3 liter a day. Insufficient intake of water could be a contributing factor in causation of irritability and anger.

3. Early morning Exercise: Brisk walking for 30 minutes at a stretch preferably in garden will be very helpful.

4. Avoid tea/coffee/ nicotine and alcoholic beverages: If at all you want to drink something, drink fresh lime water. It is very much refreshing.

5. Start your day with a glass of Lemon water with 2 spoons of honey added. have a good breakfast.

6. Don't take work so seriously: We all have the feeling to excel in our respective fields and don't spend adequate time with our own self trying to understand our own needs.
The work pressure is high: Call it a day, take a short leave and hit out to picnic spot which you always wanted to go
Spend time with your family and friends.

7. While working take frequent regular breaks: Taking regular breaks will not waste the time, but it will definitely increase the productivity, concentration and reasoning. Take break for 5 minutes every 30 minutes.

8. Avoid late night socialization

9. Avoid starring for longer time at the computer screen or TV for longer time as much as possible

10. Steam inhalation before going to sleep will be very refrshing

11. Multivitamin and Calcium supplement.

12. Meditation and Yoga- these can be very usefu in anger and stress management.

I hope this helps you.
If you have any further query, I would be glad to help you.
If not, you may close the discussion and if possible you may rate the answer for me, so that I get a good feedback.
In future if you wish to contact me directly, you can use the below mentioned link:
http://doctor.healthcaremagic.com/doctors/dr-ashok-kumar/67386
Thanks and regards
Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Follow up: Dr. Dr. Ashok Kumar Choudhary (48 minutes later)
Ok sir sure i will consult a psychiatrist.
However my Quarries are :

1. is there ant side effect of Steam inhalation and how long i will take this.?
2. For stress management i need medication or counselling only?
3. Plz can you suggest me Yoga and its type?

Thanks in advance.
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Answered by Dr. Dr. Ashok Kumar Choudhary (7 minutes later)
Brief Answer:
There are no side effect of stem inhalation

Detailed Answer:
Hello,
Thanks for reverting back to me.

You can do steam inhalation three times a day for about 10 minutes each time. It have no side effects as long as you are comfortable and once you become uncomfortable with it, stop it immediately.

First try the simple measures. If still not able to control than medications and counselling both can be considered. Medications have some side effects but it is rapidly effective. On the other hand counselling takes time and it is difficult to find right counselor here in most of the places in XXXXXXX

Join some nearby yoga clinic. I am sorry about types of yoga as I am not expert in this field. I am aware that they help most of my patients, which I refer to nearby places in my city.

I hope this helps you.
Thanks and regards
Note: For further guidance on mental health, Click here.

Above answer was peer-reviewed by : Dr. Chakravarthy Mazumdar
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Suggest Treatment For Excessive Anger And Stress

Brief Answer: There is urgent need for stress management Detailed Answer: Hello, Thanks for using Healthcaremagic. I read your query and understand your concerns. First of all I feel that you need to visit a psychiatrist in person rather than posting a query as here are multiple issues witch needs intervention. Secondly there is need to manage the stress. I am going to write few suggestions below and hope that with proper use of these simple measures you will be able to control your anger to the significant level. 1. Diet: Ensure intake of adequate quantity of fiber. 2 servings of vegetable salad and 2 servings of fruits ( One preferable citrus fruit). Avoid junk food and fast food especially pizza, burgers and excessive sweets 2. Ensure adequate water intake: Follow rule of 1 which i usually advise. 1 glass of water 1 hour before and 1 glass of water 1 hour after every meals will ensure adequate consumption of water . Recommended intake of water is 2 to 3 liter a day. Insufficient intake of water could be a contributing factor in causation of irritability and anger. 3. Early morning Exercise: Brisk walking for 30 minutes at a stretch preferably in garden will be very helpful. 4. Avoid tea/coffee/ nicotine and alcoholic beverages: If at all you want to drink something, drink fresh lime water. It is very much refreshing. 5. Start your day with a glass of Lemon water with 2 spoons of honey added. have a good breakfast. 6. Don't take work so seriously: We all have the feeling to excel in our respective fields and don't spend adequate time with our own self trying to understand our own needs. The work pressure is high: Call it a day, take a short leave and hit out to picnic spot which you always wanted to go Spend time with your family and friends. 7. While working take frequent regular breaks: Taking regular breaks will not waste the time, but it will definitely increase the productivity, concentration and reasoning. Take break for 5 minutes every 30 minutes. 8. Avoid late night socialization 9. Avoid starring for longer time at the computer screen or TV for longer time as much as possible 10. Steam inhalation before going to sleep will be very refrshing 11. Multivitamin and Calcium supplement. 12. Meditation and Yoga- these can be very usefu in anger and stress management. I hope this helps you. If you have any further query, I would be glad to help you. If not, you may close the discussion and if possible you may rate the answer for me, so that I get a good feedback. In future if you wish to contact me directly, you can use the below mentioned link: http://doctor.healthcaremagic.com/doctors/dr-ashok-kumar/67386 Thanks and regards