hello doctor, I am a 57 yr. old male and in the last month I am unable to get a hard on with my wife, and also unable to give myself one. But I still get that morning pee- boner. I do have a lot stress in my life, with living with my 98 yr. old grandmother and my wife. I only get 3 to 4 days off of work a month. And also on those days I work around the house. I have not told my wife about this problem yet, but the last two times not being able to perform, I think she is not stupid, because she knows ive never , ever had any problem. Always been able to do it two times a week, and for sure once a week. Thank You for any feedback you can give me.