Hello Doc,

My wife and I have a pretty normal sex life but she's never been into giving me oral, although she loves to get it. Recently, she went out with some friends and they convinced her that she should give me more blow jobs, so she has been, but... she's really bad at it, and I can tell she doesn't enjoy it. If it leads to sex, that's fine, but if it's just a BJ, most times I don't finish because I can't relax since I can tell how much she doesn't like it. This is very frustrating for her and makes her feel bad about herself. I've considered faking it, but that just wouldn't work. I'm perfectly healthy as far as I know and don't have any other problems with masturbation or sex with her. Just her blow jobs don't do it for me. What can I do?