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What Could Be The Reason For My Husband To Find Faults In Everything I Do?
My hus always complaint about me.. he is telling that he is getting everything from me from me . but he doesn t get love from me... i can t understand what he says... he told these things to my brother ... and he feels that if he talk to me first he become small infront of me... many many ego complex... never come when i call him for taking food... and never talk to me when i ask him anything...many many complications... now i am silent in my home... i never use any bad words or any thing against him so far... but yet he always finding faults on me... now his complaint is why you wake up early? why u praying and lighting the morning lamp?i only take 2 minutes for praying.. but he can t find anyother fault on me...so it is his new complaint.. etc. AND HE IS THE KING IN THIS HOME. { he said to me)..ETC... .. dr really this family is a blessed one... no matters...but he is trying to find mistakes always.. we have consulted two psychologists.. they told him to reduce your expectation and so and so... they really told us that no prm in your home..many things to write dr... but i can t write here..now he is watching on me and try to find new faults... is it is his problem dr? please give an answer?
I think, your husband has underline personality disorder, may be borderline personality disorder. In that case, he would remain emotionally unstable, will have little paranoid ideation, try to criticize you small issues etc. Ideally it is very difficult to improve personality disorder, but you can take help of a psychiatrist and psychologist.
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What Could Be The Reason For My Husband To Find Faults In Everything I Do?
Hi Thanks for using healthcare magic I think, your husband has underline personality disorder, may be borderline personality disorder. In that case, he would remain emotionally unstable, will have little paranoid ideation, try to criticize you small issues etc. Ideally it is very difficult to improve personality disorder, but you can take help of a psychiatrist and psychologist. Thanks