hello ive been unable to have sex with my long term partner for the past 8 month due to it being unbearably painful, ive been tested for stds, sti's bacterial infections and yeast and all negative, over this time ive also experienced swelling, this all started after a kidney infection but it started like every time id have sex few minutes after id be tender and it progress fully got worse and worse and now penetration is impossible. I'm bulimic for around a year and have had anorexia for the prior past 3 years i also have the implanon rod inserted for the past year and a half and have had no period since. ive visited my doctor and my nurse multiple times and they have no answer for me so i asked them to refer me to a gyno in November and still have no word. Also today i noticed i could clearly see my cervix with i opened my labia and it looks very very red and angry