my fiance s penis the head and the meat around the head had swollen up extremely large and painful after sex the next day it started to turn discolored like a darker color and seemed a little pussy around the head and we are wondering what this could be it s extremely painful to him and it s extremely swollen. We may have had sex for quite a while like several hours but have never experienced this with him before could this be a bacterial infection or what could it be? We ve been apart for about almost 2 months and now back together and so I m worried could you tell me what this to me?please please tell me what some of these causes maybe it s also really red and so on and looks infected this is the third day and it just seems to get larger? Thanksmy name is Reanna