HealthCareMagic is now Ask A Doctor - 24x7 | https://www.askadoctor24x7.com

Get your health question answered instantly from our pool of 18000+ doctors from over 80 specialties
159 Doctors Online

By proceeding, I accept the Terms and Conditions

Dr. Andrew Rynne
MD
Dr. Andrew Rynne

Family Physician

Exp 50 years

HCM Blog Instant Access to Doctors
HCM BlogQuestions Answered
HCM Blog Satisfaction

What Causes Painful Intercourse?

I recently got married. I am a 54 yr old female. I hadn t had sex for 16 yrs prior to getting married. He is bigger than average suze but it is almost to painful to bear for me. I don t tell him. I don t know what s wrong I ve never had this problem before and have had sex with a man bigger than him. What could be the problem? The pain is occurring on entry.
Wed, 5 Apr 2017
Report Abuse
Urologist,  's  Response
Hi, welcome to HCM..
Thank you so much for posting your query..
I read your question completely and have understood it well.

I being a surgeon, we come across so many such cases.
Generally it happens if a woman does not have sex for a long time or, in initial days of sexual life.
Your problem is simple. You are having sex after 16 years! Which is a long time.
So it's understandable and normal to have painful intercourse.
I appreciate your nature of not telling the male partner but I suggest you should share and take his help too..

Anyway, following are the things I recommend.
1. Be cool and do not worry. Your problem is not something unusual. It happens.
2. Be positive that you can combat this problem and come out of it successfully.
3. Talk to male partner, and ask him to contact operate like
A. Go slow when entering
B. Be gentle initial days.
C. You can use some local anesthetic like lignocaine gel, this is very effective in providing pain relief

Please follow all these and slowly over time, there should not be any kind of pain.
Hope this helps you..
Take care and God bless you..
I find this answer helpful
Note: For further follow up on related General & Family Physician Click here.
Disclaimer: These answers are for your information only and not intended to replace your relationship with your treating physician.
This is a short, free answer. For a more detailed, immediate answer, try our premium service [Sample answer]
Share on
 

Related questions you may be interested in


Loading Online Doctors....
What Causes Painful Intercourse?

Hi, welcome to HCM.. Thank you so much for posting your query.. I read your question completely and have understood it well. I being a surgeon, we come across so many such cases. Generally it happens if a woman does not have sex for a long time or, in initial days of sexual life. Your problem is simple. You are having sex after 16 years! Which is a long time. So it s understandable and normal to have painful intercourse. I appreciate your nature of not telling the male partner but I suggest you should share and take his help too.. Anyway, following are the things I recommend. 1. Be cool and do not worry. Your problem is not something unusual. It happens. 2. Be positive that you can combat this problem and come out of it successfully. 3. Talk to male partner, and ask him to contact operate like A. Go slow when entering B. Be gentle initial days. C. You can use some local anesthetic like lignocaine gel, this is very effective in providing pain relief Please follow all these and slowly over time, there should not be any kind of pain. Hope this helps you.. Take care and God bless you..