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What Causes Lack Of Interest From Spouse Except For Sexual Activities?
I don t know what is going on in me. I want to spend time with my husband, but he always likes to spending time with his friends and mobile. He only likes to do sex with me, and nothing else. What can I do for this? Am I thinking wrong? Give me your valuable suggestion.
Mon, 30 Jan 2017
Dear,
I do understand Your concern.
The fact that your husband wants to do sex with you is a very good thing. The problem is that he finds sex as the only important thing in your relationship.
In this cases remember: Communication is the best thing. Ask him to take You out with friends for dinner. Make conversations that will rise his interest in you beyond sexual affair. This can be done when You start to invest in yourself. I would recommend that You start going in the gym, or start a group meeting with friends. Maybe some courses such as learning to cook, learning a new language, to sew, to haircut etc may be a good thing to take You out of this atmosphere. Tell and teach him to see you as a human being with personality. Start to read books. They will help you in communication and will give to you examples of a healthy and happy living.
Do not over stress. This is a normal thing between couples, and I congratulate that you are trying to solve it out. If you start investing in yourself as i said, you will manage this situation.
I wish You all the best,
Dr. Eni
I do understand Your concern.
The fact that your husband wants to do sex with you is a very good thing. The problem is that he finds sex as the only important thing in your relationship.
In this cases remember: Communication is the best thing. Ask him to take You out with friends for dinner. Make conversations that will rise his interest in you beyond sexual affair. This can be done when You start to invest in yourself. I would recommend that You start going in the gym, or start a group meeting with friends. Maybe some courses such as learning to cook, learning a new language, to sew, to haircut etc may be a good thing to take You out of this atmosphere. Tell and teach him to see you as a human being with personality. Start to read books. They will help you in communication and will give to you examples of a healthy and happy living.
Do not over stress. This is a normal thing between couples, and I congratulate that you are trying to solve it out. If you start investing in yourself as i said, you will manage this situation.
I wish You all the best,
Dr. Eni
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