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Hello, I am 38 years old I have been married for 10 years and am still a virgin. My husband did not know how to prepare me and the attempts were so painful that I just didn t want him to do it. Now I m divorced and I recently had sex with my boyfriend who was very gentle and was able to do the job . . . It hurt real bad and bleed a lot and after a week when we had intercourse again it still hurts and bled some . . . why?
You are having vaginal spasm that cause pain. Can use lignocain gelly for painless sex. Bleeding was their as you were virgin. So dont worry. Hope my suggestions helpful and thankful to you. Take care.after some intercourse it will not give you pain.
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What Causes Bleeding After Intercourse?
You are having vaginal spasm that cause pain. Can use lignocain gelly for painless sex. Bleeding was their as you were virgin. So dont worry. Hope my suggestions helpful and thankful to you. Take care.after some intercourse it will not give you pain.