I am involved with a guy but he is controlling jealous and seems that he does not care about my feelings. He seems to care and act different when he is around his son and grandsons.It seems he cares more about them then me. Its like he doesn t want me to be happy. I address certain issues with him but he acts like he isn t interested or its ok if he agrees to it if i do something he doesn t like he lets me know but if he does the same thing it s ok he justify it. I let him know how bad it hurts me and upsets me but it s like it does not phase him one bit. What is he at times i feel like he has co conscience towards me or some of the things he says or does. i am confused. I have been with him on and off for 10 years.I have in the pass but restraining order on him but it doesn t stop him. i have seen him follow me and drive pass my house. I am confused is he crazy or what i am having a problem trying to figure out what he is.Either psycho path or social path or either.please help me with this matter. Yes he can be mean at one time i know he was upset with me and we walking we were going to the store,while we were walking he kept stepping on my heels. Several times. i brought it to his attention, and he kept saying he s sorry or he would say he is being clumsy.But i know better.That is one way for him to take it out on me. Just things like that.Can you help me figure him out?