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What Are The Adverse Effects Of Masturbation On Future Sexual Life?
Hello doctor,
I wanted to ask you something about masturbation problems because i dont feel like consulting doctor personally for this.
Actually i was a victim of child abuse in my childhood, and because of some bad companions of mine i got addicted to masturbation at a vry early age of aroun 12 or 13 years. I didnt know about any severe effects of what i was doing unfortunately. In the beginning it was too much like sometimes 2 times in a day or 2-3 rimes in a week. But as i grew up older i reduced it to some extent when i was around 15 or 16 years old. But i am unable to stop masturbating, like if i eat more then more frequently i feel like to masturbate . now i am 21 years old 5 ft 6 inches and weighs only 55 kgs which makes me look kind of a skinny boy. i try very hard to put on some more weight, but i dont get any satisfactory result. from around past 5-6 years my body hasnt shown any sign of growth. i am vry worried about my physique and because of which i also dont like to meet any friends or relatives. please advice me something doctor so that i can cure from this problem. and also some people tell me that i will become normal if i do actual sex with a female. or some say may be after marriage. i dont know what to do , i request you please guide me for god sake.
thanks for your time and consideration.
awaiting yours...
I wanted to ask you something about masturbation problems because i dont feel like consulting doctor personally for this.
Actually i was a victim of child abuse in my childhood, and because of some bad companions of mine i got addicted to masturbation at a vry early age of aroun 12 or 13 years. I didnt know about any severe effects of what i was doing unfortunately. In the beginning it was too much like sometimes 2 times in a day or 2-3 rimes in a week. But as i grew up older i reduced it to some extent when i was around 15 or 16 years old. But i am unable to stop masturbating, like if i eat more then more frequently i feel like to masturbate . now i am 21 years old 5 ft 6 inches and weighs only 55 kgs which makes me look kind of a skinny boy. i try very hard to put on some more weight, but i dont get any satisfactory result. from around past 5-6 years my body hasnt shown any sign of growth. i am vry worried about my physique and because of which i also dont like to meet any friends or relatives. please advice me something doctor so that i can cure from this problem. and also some people tell me that i will become normal if i do actual sex with a female. or some say may be after marriage. i dont know what to do , i request you please guide me for god sake.
thanks for your time and consideration.
awaiting yours...
Wed, 3 Dec 2014
Hi.
Thanks for your query and an elucidate history and some understanding and mis-understanding about the topic under consideration.
First of all, come out of the guilt and anxiety you look to be carrying on.
Masturbation 3 to 4 times in a day is absolutely a normal and physiological process in human being, gives you sufficient pleasure , relaxation and hormonal balance and emotional outgo.
So no need to stop Masturbation.
This will have no side effects and you can certainly have a normal sexual life even after marriage.
As far as the question of not gaining weight: there are many other problems , either physical or otherwise that have a direct bearing on your physical development.
I would advise you to get checked once from a Physician and undergo some investigations to make sure that you are not suffering from some medical problem; if found out get treated and you will be fine.
Reduce your stressful life, try to relax as much as possible.
Thanks for your query and an elucidate history and some understanding and mis-understanding about the topic under consideration.
First of all, come out of the guilt and anxiety you look to be carrying on.
Masturbation 3 to 4 times in a day is absolutely a normal and physiological process in human being, gives you sufficient pleasure , relaxation and hormonal balance and emotional outgo.
So no need to stop Masturbation.
This will have no side effects and you can certainly have a normal sexual life even after marriage.
As far as the question of not gaining weight: there are many other problems , either physical or otherwise that have a direct bearing on your physical development.
I would advise you to get checked once from a Physician and undergo some investigations to make sure that you are not suffering from some medical problem; if found out get treated and you will be fine.
Reduce your stressful life, try to relax as much as possible.
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