My son who is gay, had been in a relationship with a person for16 yrs. over this time , this person has been found to be a liar , cheater, has lost jobs, ran of the family with his horrible and unacceptable behavior. My son who is very bright, mannerly, with a ton of friends, sees some of these behaviors, but find excuses to excuse them all. He can see shortcomings in others, but not his sig other. The problem is : this guy is a cop who has just been charged with child pornography! He tells my son he's being framed! My son believes him!