Hello
Low sexual drive may be due to many causes like stress,anxiety,altered hormone level etc.
You may need clinical examaintion and proper history taking.
Beside this you may need routine hemogram,random blood sugar,
lipid profile,renal and liver function test,
thyroid profile,
ultrasound of abdomen.
Excess fat over abdomen may be due to many causes.It may be due to sedentary life,hypothyroid state etc.
You may need few medicines after evaluation.
You should avoid provocative literature and videos.
Try to concentrate in your job.
Generally medicines are not helpful in this case.
You may need
psychological therapy if needed.
You should take healthy and balanced diet.
Get well soon.
Take Care
Dr.Indu Bhushan