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hi im 27 years of age i really love my boyfriend and everytime we get started im always thinking about how painful it will be when it goes in and it makes me push him away and i don t want to i really want to but just scared and when we try i just think why has itr not gone in please help i really love him
You are having anxiety of painful sex. First of all remove this anxiety from mind. First intercourse is painful. But pain can be reduced by applying some lubricant during sex and by gentle slow penetration. If you still feel anxiety you can take some antianxiety drugs like buspiron it will help youa lot. You can also go for a minor procedure of hymenectomy by the doctor under anesthesia it is painless procedure. You even don't feel while procedure. So dont worry. Hope my suggestions helpful and thankful to you. Take care.
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You are having anxiety of painful sex. First of all remove this anxiety from mind. First intercourse is painful. But pain can be reduced by applying some lubricant during sex and by gentle slow penetration. If you still feel anxiety you can take some antianxiety drugs like buspiron it will help youa lot. You can also go for a minor procedure of hymenectomy by the doctor under anesthesia it is painless procedure. You even don t feel while procedure. So dont worry. Hope my suggestions helpful and thankful to you. Take care.