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Suggest Treatment For Difficulty In Getting Erection

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I am very worried about some erection issues. I have a girlfriend and I am very attracted to her but whenever we kiss or whatnot it takes what seems a while to get errect or "hard". Is this because I have so much experience with girls that im just not turned on from kissing and it takes more touching. Or is their something seriously wrong with me? im worried.
Wed, 12 Nov 2014
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HI, thank you for using health care magic.
I can understand your concern.
As you reported erection is present but it takes long, means nothing is wrong with erection itself. So it is the arousal phase of love making which is difficult in your problem. Many times with issues like change of partner, stress, conflict with partner may affect the arousal part of love making. But it is usally short lasting. Also arousal can be more quickly once person get more intimate with partner. So in my opinion you should not be worried.
Sensate focus training will help you in getting aroused more quickly. In this training ,body parts of a person which are arousing, are explored . That will help both(male & female) to understand partner's sensitive / arousing zone. Proper arousal will be more quickly once your girlfriend work on different arousing zone.
Hope this will help you.
Regards.

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Suggest Treatment For Difficulty In Getting Erection

HI, thank you for using health care magic. I can understand your concern. As you reported erection is present but it takes long, means nothing is wrong with erection itself. So it is the arousal phase of love making which is difficult in your problem. Many times with issues like change of partner, stress, conflict with partner may affect the arousal part of love making. But it is usally short lasting. Also arousal can be more quickly once person get more intimate with partner. So in my opinion you should not be worried. Sensate focus training will help you in getting aroused more quickly. In this training ,body parts of a person which are arousing, are explored . That will help both(male & female) to understand partner s sensitive / arousing zone. Proper arousal will be more quickly once your girlfriend work on different arousing zone. Hope this will help you. Regards.