This is about my father. Age = 65 Medical History: Diabetes, leprosy ( treatment going. started 6 months before), hypertension(taken alphrazolam for 3 months as per medication) Description: my fathers age is 68 and he is very abusive to my mom who is 58 He does not understand that his impulsive angry behavior is pain for my mom and the family. he only tries to make his point and does not follow any logical discussions. he may agree with certain logical discussions but later will forget that start with his own saying. he was really abusive to my mom 5 yrs before physical and mental. Also he was very irresponsible in his duties towards his family. when everything wat he wants is there, he is the perfect guy who talks intellectually spritiually but as soon as something happens which is not as per his wish he turns violent if he has a weak opponet or becomes a nagging dog if he has a strong opponent. he dont want to see a psychiatric. We have taken him to psychiatric 2 yrs before and he was prescribed with alprazholam. he took them multiple times a day and his health detoriated. We somehow made him stop taking that. His health went back, but the mental health remains the same. He is very extreme in nature. his anger has no control, and he jst goes restless if something does not happen according to him(specially when people do not behave the way he wants them to behave with him). he also has the fear of dying if he does not eat well or travel fast. he gets very anxious about his health for a moment if he thinks he will not get food in time. he has a mania of playing with water and applying it on his forehead. even in extreme winter he feels like he need a fan running in front of his head. He does not understand a reason which does not align with what he want to do. Even when he understand and says he will apply, during the implementation he goes his way. he has taken the family in many absurd situations. now i am getting married and my mom is near a breakdown due to this behavior. Now he can only magnify his behvior in front of my mom as we have grown up. he remains calm and quite as we are around and as we leave he starts everything with my mom. how to tackle this. i am from pune, india. does any institution handle these kind of cases. he do not want to go to a doc for this