I am 46yrs and have had hot flushes since I was. 31yrs they are now unbearable and making me depressed I also get itchy and take citrizine every day for 3yrs I have no sex drive and heavy periods and don t leave the house I have. A prolapsed disc in my back and my muscles and bones ache all the time I don t seem to get the attention I need from my doctors as I never see the same doctor twice and also feel depressed because of all the things going on with body I also have a paranoid personality disorder which affects me where I don t trust and anybody including my doctor I tend to stay home a lot as I have difficulty being around everyday people I know I have numerous complaints but need help