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Suggest Remedy For Low Libido

Hi, My husband and I have major physical compatibility issue. He does not want to reach the intercourse stage. He prefers ejaculating by hand or oral , he himself cannot touch his hand anywhere near the vagina or in fact anywhere even close to the lower area. Our frequency of complete sex is next to nil and its me who has to initiate. Even in 1st year of marriage he goes for months without feeling need for complete sex.
Fri, 4 Sep 2015
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Hallow Madam,

I empathize your situation. However, since he ejaculates manually with full erection, there does not seem to be any problem in his libido. However, he is avoiding to have sexual satisfaction from you.

I feel he needs a sexual counselling. His sexual orientation also has to be found out. Some one, may be you or some counsellor can take him in confidence and find out his liking and sexual orientation.

May be he is having some diffidence in sexual act, probably due to some traumatic previous experience.

All these aspects can be tackled by a counsellor. Please take some sexual counsellors help.

I hope you have got the message.
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Suggest Remedy For Low Libido

Hallow Madam, I empathize your situation. However, since he ejaculates manually with full erection, there does not seem to be any problem in his libido. However, he is avoiding to have sexual satisfaction from you. I feel he needs a sexual counselling. His sexual orientation also has to be found out. Some one, may be you or some counsellor can take him in confidence and find out his liking and sexual orientation. May be he is having some diffidence in sexual act, probably due to some traumatic previous experience. All these aspects can be tackled by a counsellor. Please take some sexual counsellors help. I hope you have got the message.