Pain in testicle after masturbation. Diagnosed as varicocele. Cure?

Hi Doctor! I am 27 year old male. Four years back, I was getting pain in left testicle after masturbation/during ejaculation . I consulted Urologist , who cured my problem with some medications . Last one and half year back the pain returned. And became worse with my frequent masturbation. I was diagnosed with left mild varicocele . The Urologist concluded that pain was due to varicocele and gave me some pain killer and said that I had to undergo an operation. I switched to Ayurvedic medicine, where I found some relief. Now, again I have started getting pain in the left testicle and in the left side area above penis ( pelvic region), after masturbation. The pain starts near left side of testicle and radiates upwards to the left side are of the region above penis. I got a scan, which showed I had grade 2-3 varicocele. My sperm counts are good. I must admit that I masturbate excessively (3-4 times a day). I also feel like urinating after ejaculation. Is the pain because of varicocele or excessive masturbation or is it some thing related to pelvic area? What is the Cure? I am getting engaged in a couple of months. Please reply asap. Thanks in advance....