My wife and I have been together 19 years. We are 10 yrs apart. Our sex life for the first 17 years has never been a priority for her. She was okay with having sex once a week and maybe having an orgasm. I could have sex everyday. Last year her sex drive has increased and mine now has declined. I only want it once a week and she wants it multiple times a week and will use her vibrator and orgasm up to 3 times. Should I get a pill to increase my drive? I am losing her to a toy