I only reach orgasm through use of a vibrator. It has always been a slow and tedious effort to climax and my orgasm are often disappointing . To compound matters, since two years my orgasms not only disappoint but are becoming increasingly painful. The pain is during climax and in my clitoris. The only way I can describe it is.... the contractions are so strong that they hurt. There is no pleasure any more and I am giving up trying to attain that hapless state. My loving boyfriend has fantastic orgasms and I find I am feeling resentment.

I have Googled my problem but can't find another that equates. Either the women have a gynaecological problem or the pain is after orgasm or in the lower stomach. The frustration is depressing me.