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How To Overcome Depression?

my husband had double bypass surgery in July. He is an r.n. and he started researching everything afterwards. He said he was depressed, now he accuses me of saying things his former wives have said to him and he says he wants a divorce when he retires in June of next year. He has me so depressed and upset because I am too old to go through this. Is this common?
Thu, 12 Mar 2015
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Welcome to HCM
We understand your concerns

I went through your details. Please understand that your husband is disappointed (not clinically depressed) with those bypass surgeries and the long hospital ordeal as well as his present condition. That is his natural behavior. You can think in another way too. He thinks himself as cripples and good for nothing. He doesn't want you to suffer the same fate because of him. He wants you to be safe and leading a good life away from him. So he could be trying to nag you away. Talk to him and be near him. slowly and slowly his disappointment will work towards hope. You may consult a psychologist for expert counseling.

If you require more of my help in this aspect, please use this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible.

Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications.
Good luck.
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How To Overcome Depression?

Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. Please understand that your husband is disappointed (not clinically depressed) with those bypass surgeries and the long hospital ordeal as well as his present condition. That is his natural behavior. You can think in another way too. He thinks himself as cripples and good for nothing. He doesn t want you to suffer the same fate because of him. He wants you to be safe and leading a good life away from him. So he could be trying to nag you away. Talk to him and be near him. slowly and slowly his disappointment will work towards hope. You may consult a psychologist for expert counseling. If you require more of my help in this aspect, please use this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.