My wife has become extremely emotional often about things that don t really matter. She finds faults in the smallest things. She dramatically over reacts to the slightest of disagreements. It s like she is constantly looking for things to be offended about . . usually blaming me for anything and everything that goes wrong. If she loses something. . it s because I moved it or threw it out. If I say anything that disagrees with whatever she says I m looking for a fight. I m walking on egg shells fearing my every word or even body language will be interpreted as being hostile. If there is a discussion or debate she instinctively takes the other persons side making me to be not only wrong but chronically wrong and out of touch. She frequently says things in front of friends that are completely untrue, usually about my behavior or something she alleges I did or said. I can t even ask a question without being hyper sensitive about how she might respond. She is 62 and has been going thru menopause for what seems like eternity (5-6 years). Maybe this can all be explained away by menopause. But I m getting very concerned because these are some of the same behaviors my Mom displayed before being diagnosed with multiple meloynoma. . . which took her life. I ve researched MM symptoms and she doesn t seem to be showing any of the physical signs . . anemia, brittle bones, back or leg weakness, etc. but she is displaying many of the mental/emotional symptoms as my Mom. I m getting very concerned and not sure where to go or what to do. If I talk to our Family Dr he s just going to say it s menopause. And maybe it is. But maybe it s not. And this has begun to put a major strain on our marriage. BTW . We celebrated our 29th anniversary this past Monday. I love her very much but I m beginning to wonder if we ll see 30. What should I do? http://www.cancer.org/cancer/ /detailedguide/multiple-myeloma-signs-symptomsalking