Hi I'm only 13 and yesterday I noticed pain while urinating and and overall ache in that area... Today it was worse. I found a hard lump on my left side while it is not that wide it it about 1 inch in length. I have pain walking, sitting, even lying down sometimes and peeing is excruciating... I did some research and I think it is a Bartholin cyst but I am terrified to tell anyone or go to the doctor and have surgery. Is there anything I can do? Please help it is extremely painful.