Hi! I broke up with my ex in 2004 December because she was cheating on me. She then had a baby on September 17 2005. She never said anything to me until last year when she heard I'm expecting a child with someone else. That's when she told me the child is mine. I dismissed it as a cry for help due to jealousy. But she started being serious and has told the child I'm her father. I told her I don't want to take any action until DNA has been done. Any action including financial obligations and emotionalconnection to the child. I still do not afford a DNA test but this issue is eating me alive. Please advice.