Hello - I had microdiscectomy 3 weeks ago for l4-l5 disc extrusion aged 28 years and expected to get married in another 3 months. I would be required to do lot of forward bending during my marriage, would it be advisable to do marriage which needs lot of bending within four months of surgery?. Also, please let me know, when can I start driving bikes and car after this microdiscectomy surgery. Another question is is there any gel or cream which you would advise to apply on the incision site to make the scar dissapear ?..Another question is would there be any impact to sexual life ?. Please answer all these questions since I m in huge anxiety and would be happy to hear your answers..