Dear user, Thanks for writing to HCM. I can understand that you are recently married and facing problem during having sexual intercourse with your partner. You did not exactly describe which kind of problem you are facing. Masturbation is a normal part of sexual activity. Masturbation is similar to sexual intercourse. What penis does in partner s vagina during sexual intercourse, same it does during masturbation in your folded palm! Sexual intercourse does not cause weakness or any harm, so how masturbation can do! The problem during sex with your partner is due to anxiety of semen loss (Psychological). There are effective medication and counseling for same. Kindly see a psychiatrist in your area. Wish you good health.