Hello, I am 16 years old and I have a boyfriend who is 21. We're kinda having a long-distance relationship. We barely meet and mostly talk on the phone. In the start we used to talk a little sexually and it made us both feel good. Afterwards he also started masterbating whenever we talked sexually, and I also touched myself down there. It didn't happen that regularly, but just sometimes when we both were in the mood. Then we both started getting problems, we both kinda leak whenever we think about eachother. He's been feeling weak and has been having pain in the back and legs. Even lost some weight, he does eat a lot. I leak all the time and the fluid has gone thinner and less sticky. He's been to the doctor and they say that this is a huge problem. After he goes to the washroom his penis leaks and a few drops of fluid always come out afterwards, also when he thinks about me, his penis erects really fast. He wants to get rid of this and so do I. I don't want to leak all the time anymore. We're both scared that it'll give us problems in the future when we want to have kids, is this true and what is so negative about masterbating. Can you please help???

Thank you so so so so much!

Wing-Yee.