Hii
I admire you for positive outlook.
Yes it occur many a times.
it is common in intial sexual life.
Masturbation is normal physiological function of our body
it is one the method to satisfy sexual pleasure in absent of partner
both sex and masturbation has same and has same end result to get satisfaction.
So no need to worry
masturbation doesn't lead to any problem in your married life
but constant thinking and feeling of guilt of masturbation will effect
so don't think much.
Free communicative and mutual understanding will help
Sex is mutual act
So try to do mutually and tell your problem to partner
This will reduce your
anxiety and able to erect easily.
To learn how to stay long
certain methods like
women on top position
condoms
lubricated with
benzocaine kegel's exercise will help ful .please read on net and learn how to do it
stop and start method of sex is very good results. it is thought diversion method and require time to learn . search on net to do it proper way
read more on google
masturbating before sex can increase your time
proper play and understanding is needed.
Hope you will get best.
Thank you.