Can I get hiv from getting oral sex ? It was at an Asian parlor they provided the condom don't know it t was real or not just assuming ? I'm scared she might have had sores in her mouth or blood that would have infected me I truly don't know ? What if she had hiv and had bleeding gums or sores? Now I'm experiencing a sore somewhat swollen left armpit only six weeks after the encounter. I'm also experiencing somewhat shortness of breath. I got tested 4 days after the initial exposure a hiv 4th gen test and it was negative I don't know if it was conclusive because of a testing window ? Help