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Question: Sir, Myself XXXXXXX gidwani 27year old single girl, aimless and lonely from inside. I have a problem of mood swings and i think I'm in a depression. I need someone who don't no me and listen my heartache. Sir I'm going in depression. Lot many things going in mind. I want to runaway from everything but also feeling scared from the society and world around us.
Please suggest what should i do now.
Please suggest what should i do now.
Brief Answer:
Probably depression, need details.
Detailed Answer:
Hello Dear XXXXXXX
Welcome to HCM.
I can understand your concerns.
Your description of your problems strongly suggests that you are suffering from depression.
You have about your 'heartache'. You have also mentioned that you feel lonely.
Well, You can freely express your problems here and we can then find an appropriate solution for it.
That will also help me to determine whether you need antidepressant medication or just psychological support.
Hope to hear from you soon, a more elaborate description of what your problems are.
Thanks.
Dr. Shubham Mehta, MD(Psychiatry)
Probably depression, need details.
Detailed Answer:
Hello Dear XXXXXXX
Welcome to HCM.
I can understand your concerns.
Your description of your problems strongly suggests that you are suffering from depression.
You have about your 'heartache'. You have also mentioned that you feel lonely.
Well, You can freely express your problems here and we can then find an appropriate solution for it.
That will also help me to determine whether you need antidepressant medication or just psychological support.
Hope to hear from you soon, a more elaborate description of what your problems are.
Thanks.
Dr. Shubham Mehta, MD(Psychiatry)
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Prasad
Thanks for replying sir,
Well I have many problems in life, I have big hopes from me but courage and determination is lacking. Sir I'm in a relationship past 7 year and that guy and me and my guy are 2 different kind of person. with fight and other stuff we mentioned this relation from so long. The major factor is effecting me most is the education, status and cast. Sir may be you can say now I'm get bored or that feelings has gone. That's why I'm searching reason. I know nobody is happy in this freaking world. but Sir I am scared of my future.As I have a big hope from me I want to work in Some good MNC because he is not educated enough and also he may lack of confidence I'm also in XXXXXXX (city in Rajasthan). Sir I need a person who make me laugh, do small small things to realise still love is there. Sir we were so intimate to other but I don't feelings to do anything with him. I am struggling to get married to him but he has his own family problem. He never allow me to meet my friends or for any outing alone. I know he may be insure but sir this is also killing me. As he is not financially settled no saving no future planning. I'm waiting from his mouth that he can offer me a coffee from his own pocket. Sir one intuitions are coming may be he will not depended on me. Sir he is so involve in me and I need some space.
that was the one issue.
another one, Sir I have a major problem I can't remember much think in mind. Frequently I do forget what was i about to say or about write. Now I use to forget spellings with their first alphabet. Or the street where I wanna go. after few second I do release I'm wrong track. Sir things are really liking me inside. I'm very social kind of person, sitting ideally doing nothing made me crazy, I often lose control and get hurt on small things. I don't get feelings to do sex. I don't no how long I will sustain like thing. But yes, I'm really alone from inside.
Please save me sir. Sir, I'm MBA, PH.D Scholar and struggling myself in this small city. Sir I have problem I can't walk alone without any support (mentally). I have a big phobia if I broke this relation again I have survive alone (but with him also I'm feeling alone) and I feel pity on him If I leave him. He will never get chance to stand properly. May be I am wrong, as i am soft hearted person.
My parents are little scared if i get married to him, I have to struggle a lot to maintain my expenses. But he will not leave me. Neither taking decision to get married to me because of money problem.
If I plan to go out for a vacation he also wanna join me. But i need to go alone. Oh God, What to do?
Well I have many problems in life, I have big hopes from me but courage and determination is lacking. Sir I'm in a relationship past 7 year and that guy and me and my guy are 2 different kind of person. with fight and other stuff we mentioned this relation from so long. The major factor is effecting me most is the education, status and cast. Sir may be you can say now I'm get bored or that feelings has gone. That's why I'm searching reason. I know nobody is happy in this freaking world. but Sir I am scared of my future.As I have a big hope from me I want to work in Some good MNC because he is not educated enough and also he may lack of confidence I'm also in XXXXXXX (city in Rajasthan). Sir I need a person who make me laugh, do small small things to realise still love is there. Sir we were so intimate to other but I don't feelings to do anything with him. I am struggling to get married to him but he has his own family problem. He never allow me to meet my friends or for any outing alone. I know he may be insure but sir this is also killing me. As he is not financially settled no saving no future planning. I'm waiting from his mouth that he can offer me a coffee from his own pocket. Sir one intuitions are coming may be he will not depended on me. Sir he is so involve in me and I need some space.
that was the one issue.
another one, Sir I have a major problem I can't remember much think in mind. Frequently I do forget what was i about to say or about write. Now I use to forget spellings with their first alphabet. Or the street where I wanna go. after few second I do release I'm wrong track. Sir things are really liking me inside. I'm very social kind of person, sitting ideally doing nothing made me crazy, I often lose control and get hurt on small things. I don't get feelings to do sex. I don't no how long I will sustain like thing. But yes, I'm really alone from inside.
Please save me sir. Sir, I'm MBA, PH.D Scholar and struggling myself in this small city. Sir I have problem I can't walk alone without any support (mentally). I have a big phobia if I broke this relation again I have survive alone (but with him also I'm feeling alone) and I feel pity on him If I leave him. He will never get chance to stand properly. May be I am wrong, as i am soft hearted person.
My parents are little scared if i get married to him, I have to struggle a lot to maintain my expenses. But he will not leave me. Neither taking decision to get married to me because of money problem.
If I plan to go out for a vacation he also wanna join me. But i need to go alone. Oh God, What to do?
Brief Answer:
Be clear in your relationship, do not linger on.
Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX
Thanks for getting back with details.
It really needs courage to share such personal stuff with someone.
Considering the whole scenario, I think your relationship is affecting you to a great extent.
See, if we are not comfortable with someone, how can we spend whole life with him/her. I think your friend is being over-possessive. And this is hurting your relationship badly.
I feel that you should talk to him about this clearly and politely. He should understand your situation.
Otherwise you will end up in depression.
Its good to love and be loved. But there some practical aspects of life like career, future, finances etc which one has to mange.
So, its better to be clear then to linger on, just because you both have known each other since long.
What does your parents and his parents say about this relationship?
I am practice in XXXXXXX city in state of XXXXXXX If you find it feasible, you can approach my clinic also. I will be happy to help.
Wish you well.
Be clear in your relationship, do not linger on.
Detailed Answer:
Dear XXXXXXX
Thanks for getting back with details.
It really needs courage to share such personal stuff with someone.
Considering the whole scenario, I think your relationship is affecting you to a great extent.
See, if we are not comfortable with someone, how can we spend whole life with him/her. I think your friend is being over-possessive. And this is hurting your relationship badly.
I feel that you should talk to him about this clearly and politely. He should understand your situation.
Otherwise you will end up in depression.
Its good to love and be loved. But there some practical aspects of life like career, future, finances etc which one has to mange.
So, its better to be clear then to linger on, just because you both have known each other since long.
What does your parents and his parents say about this relationship?
I am practice in XXXXXXX city in state of XXXXXXX If you find it feasible, you can approach my clinic also. I will be happy to help.
Wish you well.
Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Prasad
Doc are you really think I need a medical support. Our its a just my over concern or over thinking.
I donno I want to cry loader but I have no reason.
I donno I want to cry loader but I have no reason.
Brief Answer:
Psychological treatment may help.
Detailed Answer:
Dear,
This chronic feeling of emptiness is leading you to depression.
You may not need medicines at this stage. Psychological treatment only may help.
But the best assessment can be done by a face to face interview.
So, I would suggest you to consult your nearest psychiatrist for detailed evaluation.
This is not your over thinking.
Hope you get well soon.
Thanks.
Psychological treatment may help.
Detailed Answer:
Dear,
This chronic feeling of emptiness is leading you to depression.
You may not need medicines at this stage. Psychological treatment only may help.
But the best assessment can be done by a face to face interview.
So, I would suggest you to consult your nearest psychiatrist for detailed evaluation.
This is not your over thinking.
Hope you get well soon.
Thanks.
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Above answer was peer-reviewed by :
Dr. Prasad
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