hello mam,, thnks fr trusting health care magic doctors fr ur health related queries. i guess ur concern is about-pain during intercourse ... lets sort out the issue with d info u have shared with us:- 1.u r virgin-wen virgins hav sex fr first time..tis is normall..so relax dont wory at all... 2.u couples how often u hv sex???,2-3 months interval..tis can also cause problem....so relax...al these can be solved... wen virgins hav sex for first time or even wen couples have sex after sufficient time of gap...this kind of pain experience is common...its normal..so chill,relax..nothing to worry...cz vaginal structures may not be relaxed well to accommodate male private part...slowly these structures loosen up.... usually gets settled down with time... if it persists fr quite a long period then then there is something fishy...then,my Straight forward suggestion:Mam,plz visit nearby gynecologist asap,,but dont worry,every problem has a solution..... lets discuss one by .... 1.pain during sex..its called dyspareunia....any infection of female private part can cause this....relax,its treatable the concern needs an examination by expertise.... with tis small discussion u can try out suggestions.. 1.u can wait with patience fr next 1-2 months,as u are virgin there would less chances of abnormality.... 1.u can use 2% lignocaine jelly before sex availbl at ur nearby medical shop at affordabl prices...ask ur bf to apply b4 sex,,,juz 2-3 drops 2-3 minutes b4 sex.....try tis fr next few dayss tis vil solve ur problem by 99% 2.if problem persist fr more than 3-4 months,then there would b some problm.. 3.visit a nearby gynecologist to have a look n treat the exact problem.. y am i suggesting gynecologist is that they hav a sound knowledge about female anatomy and its normal n abnormal body functions..so they can give precise opinion n treatment... i hope tis was informative enough,helpful n useful fr ur query.. regards:dr.sudha rani panagar... (meeting after a long awaiting gap of 2-3months,,then wen trying to have sex ,,its not succesfull...tis has disturbed ur mind ,,n put in tension..dont worry most of couples go through tis problm...u too are on of those...relax n have patience)