hello. the foreskin of my penis gets dry and there are some tears there that seem difficult to heal, i have tried not to "annoy" the area with sex for 2-3 days and seemed to heal (just the dry and some red remained) but the tears came back with just a very little "action". what should i do and what can i apply on the area in order to moisten it but not harm it? (i heard something about clean aloe cream). Thank you!!