Your husband might be having benign orostatic hypertrophy and should be shown to a urologist
.You might need to get a ultrasound
done along with a blood test
called PSA(prostate specific antigen
).His symptoms can be alleviated by taking one T Dutas T at nightwhich may ease his symptoms.If his symptoms persist the urologist might suggest a TURP(trans urethral resection of the prostate).As for your husband not passing stools giving him two bananas daily (if he is not a diabetic) will help him.If he is a diabetic give himjust a banana daily.