Hello. I am 25 years old and have always been very healthy and maintained a very healthy weight and active/healthy lifestyle and diet. I ve came off the birth control pill 6 months ago and had very regular,normal cycles. My last cycle began oct 30 and November was the first month my husband and I have tried to conceive. I am now 51 days into my cycle, with no spotting, slight cramping off and on, breast are swollen and sore, a lot of milky like discharge, and a little queezy and tired. However I have had a few negative home pregnancy tests as well as one negative blood test 9 days ago? What is going on?