Welcome to Health care Magic.
I have gone through your query.
I am really glad to know that you have stopped stopped taking alcohol. Congratulations for getting a government job
Coming to your problem , based on the symptoms you have mentioned it could be due to Panic or anxiety
It is just the environment and the work pressure at the place where you worked before( onida company) that made you feel insecure . This insecurity leads to anxiety and panic attacks where you feel very nervous about even small things thinking too much about the consequences.
You absolutely normal. You need not worry about the same being repeated at State government job. You can happily take up the offer.
You dont even need medication. Just forget about your life at onida company. If you dont leave that , that keeps bugging your mind.
Be confident and just say to yourself that everything is going to be OK.
As you have mentioned that your wife is a doctor, just share all your problems with her.
Try to meditate.
Just because you were over pressurized in the previous job , it doesn't mean that you face the same kind of challenge everywhere you work.
One more thing i would like like to advice you is regarding tobacco chewing
. Please stop chewing tobacco as i would take a toll on your health. Try Nicorette
chewing gums. Chew a gum whenever you feel like chewing tobacco. As you have stopped alcohol i think i wont be difficult to get rid of this addiction as well.
You don't need any medicines at this stage. What is you need is a bit of counselling
and a quality time with your family( they will always stand by you at all times).
Stay positive and you life will definitely be beautiful.
Wish you a healthy life.