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Sexually Active, No Sensation In Vagina On Stimulation, Faking Orgasms. Causes?
I am 20years old and have been sexually active for 4years but have never enjoyed having sex. I can feel a mans penis enter my vagina but when movement begins i have no sensation at all. I have to fake enjoying sex because of this and also because i cant feel any enjoyment im not sure what i am doing when having sex so im very uncomfortable. Please Help
Mon, 24 Sep 2012
Hi,
Thanks for query,
First of all remember that sex is in our mind & not in organ.
If you do not make up your mind for sex you do not get enjoyment.You feel it as a boring act.
Tension free mind,no anxiety creates parasympathetic stimulation leads to desire of sex.So leave all worry.
The affection towards other partner also plays important role for sex enjoyment.
Imagine during sexual act that you are are the only person in world having so much happiness. Or your loving hero,or loving person will improve the experience.
Thanks.
Thanks for query,
First of all remember that sex is in our mind & not in organ.
If you do not make up your mind for sex you do not get enjoyment.You feel it as a boring act.
Tension free mind,no anxiety creates parasympathetic stimulation leads to desire of sex.So leave all worry.
The affection towards other partner also plays important role for sex enjoyment.
Imagine during sexual act that you are are the only person in world having so much happiness. Or your loving hero,or loving person will improve the experience.
Thanks.
I find this answer helpful
Hello
i read your problem.it seem you thinj so much during
sex .its always in your mind that wether y ou will enjoy
or not.wether you will get orgasm or not.
I would advice you dont think so much just go with the
flow.dont keep expections from your partner that
wether he will guve you orgasm or not just feel him with
true affection and love.
You may also use lubricants.increase sexual activities.before
penetration of penis.
Show full affection to your partener and feel the same
i read your problem.it seem you thinj so much during
sex .its always in your mind that wether y ou will enjoy
or not.wether you will get orgasm or not.
I would advice you dont think so much just go with the
flow.dont keep expections from your partner that
wether he will guve you orgasm or not just feel him with
true affection and love.
You may also use lubricants.increase sexual activities.before
penetration of penis.
Show full affection to your partener and feel the same
I find this answer helpful
User's Response
Dr. M.C.BABBAR's
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Hello young Kaleigh, you are most welcome over the HCM and after hearing and well studying your past history and present complaints too I am of the opinion that you need proper medical been psychological care along with remedial measured procedures too and for to recover your nice sexual feelings into vagina and clit you need to do deep breathing, pelvic floor and abdominal muscles' toning exercises regularly under the guidance of well trained woman sex therapist and who may give you some more classified local exercises as per vagina and wish you good luck for to enjoy life free from any type of stressed tension...............psy doc
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