hi--i have a question if i have arthritis or rheumatoid arthritis. it isn t every day, but it is happening alot, i am a active person, take care of big yard and flowers, entertain alot, visits to children and taking care of elderly mother and aunt. my hands are getting clumsy, i drop things, can t open top of water bottles, ringe jars, also my arms and shoulders ache, but the worse are my back, legs and feet. time for bed, and unable to sleep because my legs are achy and just plain hurt. what do you think. i m a 64 year old women. happily married.