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In A Relationship. From Past Few Months I'm Not Interested In Sex. This Makes Me Feel Low. What Is The Cause?

I have an amazing relationship with my partner Jensen. We have been together for nearly a year now and were very sexually active for the first period of our relationship. For about the last 3 months I have been completely disinterested in sex and cannot get turned on. I feel awful about it one because I loved - and still crave to have the sex we used to and two because Jensen is so very good to me and although he has been very understanding I still feel sorry for him to have to deal with this as well. I have been on birth control for the entire time we have been together, and recently my parents got a divorce which for a while was hard on the both of us. What do you think?
Fri, 10 May 2013
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Hi,
You are living with Mr. Jensen. You had been sexually active during the first 9 months. For the last 3 months you are not interested in sex, and you feel sorry for that even though you both are affectionate with each other. You are not able to be aroused for sex. Mind and mood plays a major role in sexual arousal. It is just for males also. If man is not aroused mentally there will not be any erection. The recent divorce of your parents has a severe impact on your mind. That is the reason for your problem. Your contraceptive has no role.
The remedy is within you. You have to come out of it slowly. Only Time will cure all injuries whether physical or mental.
I wish you to come out of your sorrows very soon and have a normal sex with Mr.Jensen.
Best wishes.
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In A Relationship. From Past Few Months I'm Not Interested In Sex. This Makes Me Feel Low. What Is The Cause?

Hi, You are living with Mr. Jensen. You had been sexually active during the first 9 months. For the last 3 months you are not interested in sex, and you feel sorry for that even though you both are affectionate with each other. You are not able to be aroused for sex. Mind and mood plays a major role in sexual arousal. It is just for males also. If man is not aroused mentally there will not be any erection. The recent divorce of your parents has a severe impact on your mind. That is the reason for your problem. Your contraceptive has no role. The remedy is within you. You have to come out of it slowly. Only Time will cure all injuries whether physical or mental. I wish you to come out of your sorrows very soon and have a normal sex with Mr.Jensen. Best wishes.