Hi,Lindse,
From your history it seems that you might have impacted wax in your ears causing all problems.
As you have got
chronic infection in
throat this may give chronic infection in the ear,mostly in the
middle ear.
There may be small perforation in the drum.
Without physical exam I can say this much.
You do nasal
inhalation with balm or this type of inhalation,this will reduce congestion in throat and in the ear.yoy may put
antibiotic drops and wax dissolving drops.
ok and bye.