Hello, I am a 33 year old african male. I was born preterm (7 and a half months). I remember being told I was out of air for a while but I have grown up healthy and okay without any medical issues. I'm having issues with my sex life. I have only just discovered this as I only just became sexually active. In the past I believe I have had healthy sexual attraction to females and have always been able to have an erection. It has not bothered me until recently. Please note that I have been under stress and pressure at work for about over a year now and recently met up with a lady I intend to marry. Our first sexual experience was non penetrative but I remember being "interested" the whole time. However, I can't say exactly when but on a subsequent occassion, my erection just went down a few minutes into intercourse. This has happened on occasion and research has led me to believe its anxiety, depression etc. But I've been experiencing this for about five months now.. I have been told its nothing, that I will be back on my 'feet' in no time. Also that it will not be automatic, that some time will pass (if so, about how much time will that be). Also, I'm worried about a lump behind my right ear. I have had it all my life but thought nothing of it until recently as I also have experienced the area of my face around my lips just doing irregular muscular movements like a pinched thing and the entire left side of my body feels weird. As you can see I'm a bit of a mess. I'm going to see a doctor soon but perhaps you can give me some direction. For the face thing, a doctor prescribed a course of diclofenac sodim (Dolo-Meta B) and Norflex (200mg!!) for seven days. On getting home, I was taken aback by the amount of norflex so I havent taken it but have taken the dolometa for a few days and have stopped. Please help. I really need my mojo back. Thanks!! God bless!!!