Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. I suggest you not to worry much. I see your problem. You do not have to support her. Just continue with the love and affection you are already showing. Your mother is in a disorder. She will say so many things about you because of that. Ignore those comments. It is part of her disorder. Your duty is to love her and be affectionate to her. Treat her as if she is a child and she will come nice to you. Also you do not have to worry much about her illness and put yourself in problems. Please post a direct question to me in this website. Make sure that you include every minute details possible. I shall prescribe some psychotherapy techniques which should help you cure your condition. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.