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How To Come Out Of The Childhood Harassment Of Sex And Lead A Normal Life?

Sensitive sex-offense question. when I was child one man asked: "hey boy, come help me". So I came up to him, he was near my house. We entered our home and used a life to go to some floor. Got out, went to staircase. So finally he misused my childhood (I was some 10 y old only), and he forced me to lower my underdress. ... and finally he even dared to take my genital in his mouth! I couldn't expect a man who said : "help me" could do this rape! I finally ran away from him! Then I have problem - you know doctors say i am in risk group - i think that it was kind of "oral sex", or "oral rape', or "forced oral masturbation" etc. And I have no wife no girl to marry, people even mock me - "are you gay" fo that =-( what to do? I wish I had some holy sword of Jesus to cut his genitals for that...
Wed, 26 Mar 2014
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I am sorry to learn about what you had to under go. The feelings are terrible and very difficult to shed off. Why you have no girl friend ? You have every right to feel the way you said. That guy should be punished very harshly. but why do you punish yourself when the person who deserves punishment is the guy who did wrong with you. Only way is to move forward and try to live a life that you deserve. Have some one in whom you can have faith . You need female friend to give you a fuller life.
DR SAATIISH JHUNTRRAA
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How To Come Out Of The Childhood Harassment Of Sex And Lead A Normal Life?

Hello I am sorry to learn about what you had to under go. The feelings are terrible and very difficult to shed off. Why you have no girl friend ? You have every right to feel the way you said. That guy should be punished very harshly. but why do you punish yourself when the person who deserves punishment is the guy who did wrong with you. Only way is to move forward and try to live a life that you deserve. Have some one in whom you can have faith . You need female friend to give you a fuller life. DR SAATIISH JHUNTRRAA