1. you haven't mentioned about the duration of your Problem and years for which medicine was taken from different pathy?
2. In what aspect its affecting your married life: Physically, Psychologically or BOTH?
3. Going by your description (1 minute Intercourse) it seems severe form of Premature Ejaculation
(PE), In Ayurveda: just like juice is extracted from sugarcane
4. any Associated causes: like Performance anxiety
,feeling of embarrassment-guilt-frustration/
5. is Hormonal
profile, abnormal Neurotransmitter
test been done?
6. reduce the sensation of glans by applying Lignocaine ointment, or by wearing a condom
7. The wife has a very important role to play and she should be motivated,because she may feel neglected and get frustrated,she has to be co operative and sympathetic.
8. Practice Start Stop Technique:
i. firstly masturbate yourself, and when you sense that ejaculation is near, stop.Allow the erection to subside and start again,repeating and practice for 2-4 weeks
ii. learn the same with wife,she will masturbate you ,ask her to stop when near orgasm, wait for erection to subside then start again,practice for 2-4 weeks
iii. Follow the above technique for intercourse now, but make sure initially wife should be in superior position and later you in superior position,again principle is to stop before ejaculation,practice for 3-4 months till perfect control is achieved.
9.Tab.tentex forte 2 tab thrice a day or Cap Shilajeet for 3 months
10.Avoid smoking,excessive use of alcohol,and fat rich foods,keep the weight within normal limits, maintain the cholesterol
and blood pressure at low level and exercise daily.
11. are there any other marital problems not related to sex? then solve them first.