Dear Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your description. I suggest you not to worry much. If one tablet is not helping you, then the problem is not concerned with physiology. In such cases, you should take help from sexologists or psychologists. You yourself can assess the situation and find counter measures. The basic is - Sex is love, affection and faithfulness. All these three combines to make sex pleasurable. You might need psychological counseling., I am more than happy to provide telephone psychological counseling through healthcaremagic. Contact me through customer care, www.healthcaremagic.com. Hope this answers your query. Available for further clarifications. Good luck.