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Its rather unfortunate that you are having complications.
Yes, the hematoma
will eventually be re-absorb but it has the risk of infection which has already been the case. Effective antibiotics that over gram positive, gram negative and anaerobic bacteria have to be used.
The bowel problem as well is a complication of the surgery and most likely due to the anesthesia
You will have to do bladder re-education for a day or two before the removal of the catheter.
With effective antibiotics, the infection should be controlled and everything should return to normal within a couple of days. Just be positive, so all could go faster.